Access to Peace
De-escalation tools, trauma-informed communication, and child-centered messaging — helping families move from high-conflict co-parenting toward stability.
The problem
High-conflict co-parenting situations — custody disputes, communication breakdowns, and parallel parenting challenges — often escalate because parents lack structured tools for de-escalation and child-centered communication. Without intervention, children become collateral damage in adult conflict.
Professionals working with these families (therapists, mediators, attorneys, and parenting coordinators) need practical, evidence-based frameworks that can be deployed quickly in tense moments and sustained over time. Existing resources are either too clinical to be actionable or too simplistic to address real complexity.
Our approach
This pillar extends CoTrackPro's plugin architecture with specialized skills for de-escalation and trauma-informed messaging. Each tool is built around child-centered principles — keeping children's wellbeing at the center of every interaction.
Lois247 provides 24/7 AI-powered support for navigating difficult communication moments, while CoTrackPro Skills offers modular plugins for specific conflict scenarios. Together they create a comprehensive communication toolkit for families in high-conflict co-parenting situations.
For domestic violence safety planning, protective orders, and crisis resources, see Access to Safety.
Key Capabilities
Safety Planning
Structured safety plan templates that help families identify risks, establish boundaries, and create actionable steps for protection during high-conflict situations.
De-escalation Scripts
Ready-to-use communication templates for tense moments — reframing hostile messages, setting boundaries, and redirecting conversations toward child-centered outcomes.
Trauma-Informed Messaging
Communication frameworks that acknowledge trauma history, avoid re-traumatization triggers, and prioritize emotional safety for all family members.
Child-Centered Language
Age-appropriate messaging guides that help parents communicate about difficult topics — transitions, schedule changes, and conflict — without putting children in the middle.
Real-Time Guidance
Lois247 provides instant, 24/7 AI-powered support for navigating difficult moments as they happen — not hours later when the damage is done.
Plugin Architecture
CoTrackPro Skills provides modular, extensible plugins for specific conflict scenarios — add only the capabilities you need for your practice or situation.
Projects
CoTrackPro Skills
Plugin architecture for CoTrackPro extending its capabilities with specialized de-escalation modules, safety planning workflows, and child-centered communication templates.
Lois247
24/7 AI-powered support skill for navigating difficult communication moments in high-conflict family situations. Provides real-time de-escalation guidance and child-centered messaging frameworks.
Who this is for
Parents in High-Conflict Situations
Co-parents navigating custody disputes, protection orders, or communication breakdowns who need structured tools to keep interactions safe and child-focused.
Therapists & Counselors
Mental health professionals working with families in crisis who need evidence-based de-escalation frameworks and trauma-informed communication resources.
Mediators & Family Law Attorneys
Legal professionals who need practical tools for guiding clients through conflict resolution while maintaining child-centered standards.
Advocates & Social Workers
Domestic violence advocates, guardian ad litems, and social workers supporting families through safety planning and crisis intervention.
How to use these tools
These are Claude Skills — structured AI prompt systems that run inside Claude.ai. To get started:
- Clone the repository from GitHub
- Upload the
SKILL.mdfile to a Claude Project as a project knowledge file - Start a conversation — the skill will guide you through its capabilities
No coding required. These tools work entirely through conversation with Claude.